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tread softly on my adoption | A Deeper Story

I?m adopted. I adopted my two children. There ? all my cards on the table. Now let me share the quickest way to undermine that sacrament which bookends my experience of family ? say it?s not natural.

I?ve heard it more than once, but read it more often now that blogs abound and adoption talk moves like a spark through dry brush. Adoption is harder because it?s not natural, so be patient through the process ? that?s what they say. It always surprises me they put their names on the post, don?t cover up with a bandit?s bandana or whisper it in a dark corner of an abandoned house. The most sacred element of my life is so easily diminished with so few words ? not natural.

If the holy scrolls in a synagogue were stolen, the cross in a church sanctuary pulled from the wall and defaced or the minarets of a mosque tagged, we?d all cry desecration! Local reporters would gather, scribble in tiny pocket-sized pads and rally the community to action. But call adoption unnatural or second best and all you get are sympathetic nods. My holy of holies gutted and no one?s outraged, no one notices, people even dare to applaud.

I know they mean well. But the message good but not natural doesn?t ring true to those who drink from the chalice daily, imbibing the family grace with each swill. We don?t feel unnatural in our God-ordained family. Most of us are naked and unashamed in our homes, crawling under the covers with our mothers and wrestling barefoot with our siblings and laughing with our super-hero fathers. We?re at home where we belong, naturally.

In my home, ringed by adoption goodness, I am many things: tantrum-wrangler, nightmare-whisperer, band-aid dispenser. I am oatmeal-maker, bedside-intercessor, conversation-partner, affirmation-muse and a conveyer belt of hugs, kisses and cheeky squeezes. I am not, however, unnatural. I?m not a second-hand mother, a lesser choice for these babes of mine. Nor was my own mother anything less than a natural fit for me. When God?s in the family way it might look mysterious, but never unnatural.

Family living doesn?t come easy ? the tumble of personalities, insecurities and contending wills. We each struggle with identity issues, questioning our worth, wondering if we can contribute something of value to the world. What parent, adoptive or not, hasn?t had to battle personal anxieties while fortifying the healthy identity of their child? Isn?t this par for the course in family formation? Iron on iron, friction forging character and undaunted acceptance culling a child capable of self-love ? this is indigenous to every family, right?

There?s one concession I?m willing to consider ? maybe we are not only natural, but also supranatural. The company of the adopted live beyond the most elementary understanding of nature as mere biology. We know bone-deep that we are connected, part of God?s larger Family Tree that supersedes bloodlines, ethnicity or nationality. Our shared humanity bonds us, our commitment to love without condition and weather life?s storms together creates true belonging which is hallmark to any real family.

It would do my soul good if people accepted adoption as sacramental, not unnatural. It would be a balm to my bruised heart to hear people try and voice the mystery of how God shapes families in unique ways to His glory, to His redemptive purpose. It would sound more truthful if we all admitted that struggle and sacrament are a natural part of family life.

Adoption has created a sacred space in my life, a realization that family is a gift. As adopted child and adoptive mother, I know my life to be wonderfully natural and then some. Oh, I wish those looking from the outside would tread softly?

Source: http://deeperstory.com/tread-softly-on-my-adoption/

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NYC warned of flood problems in September

Cars are blurred as they pass by a building in Manhattan's darkened Flatiron district following Hurricane Sandy.??

In a prescient New York Times article in September, scientists warned that New York City could become paralyzed for a month or more if a storm--or rising sea levels caused by climate change--caused significant flooding.

This passage, flagged by Reuters' Felix Salmon, stands out in particular:

Consolidated Edison, the utility that supplies electricity to most of the city, estimates that adaptations like installing submersible switches and moving high-voltage transformers above ground level would cost at least $250 million. Lacking the means, it is making gradual adjustments, with about $24 million spent in flood zones since 2007

Scientists have been saying for years that the city is at risk due to rising sea levels.

Currently, 250,000 ConEd customers in lower Manhattan are without power, and city officials say it could take several more days for it to be restored. The utility company's transformers at a facility on 14th Street exploded during the storm surge Monday night, raising the question of whether this $250 million investment would have prevented that from happening.

At a press conference Monday, New York City Mayor Michael Bloomberg questioned the feasibility of another suggestion from scientists and experts in that article: that the city build gates to shut off subway tubes when water rises. Currently, the city's subway system is expected to be down for at least the week.

"I don't know how practical it is to put?gates on PATH tubes and?subway?tunnels," Bloomberg said.

New York Gov. Andrew Cuomo told reporters Tuesday that the city needs to rebuild with what he called new, more severe weather patterns in mind. "It is something we're going to have to start thinking about. ... The construction of this city did not anticipate these kinds of situations. We are only a few feet above sea level," Cuomo said.

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San Diego, Oct.31, swing trading .- ?A?rumor?that?Microsoft (MSFT)?is interested in acquiring?Netflix (NFLX)drove the video streaming company up 13% in the latter half of the trading day on Friday. The rumor seems largely unfounded; nonetheless, the market loved the idea. I believe a buyout is a good idea, but is still rather unlikely for the time being.
Earlier this month, Netflix CEO Reed Hastings?announced?that he would resign from Microsoft's board. Many saw this as a precursor to a potential Microsoft acquisition. Hastings does not officially leave the board until the end of November, when Microsoft conducts its annual shareholders meeting. A buyout will have to wait until then.

So why should Microsoft consider buying Netflix? I believe the market severely undervalues Netflix, even with its recent price hike. Additionally, Netflix would allow Microsoft to compete in the huge market for online video. Finally, Netflix will improve Microsoft's internet business segment.

Netflix is the market leader in internet video streaming. Just 15 months ago, the stock was flying high priced at levels near $300. The fall back down was quick and painful as bad news and earnings convinced more and more investors to sell. Rising costs have depressed earnings significantly in the last year.

Two significant costs affected Netflix's expenses over the past two years. First, content costs rose significantly last year. While bad for Netflix's bottom line, increased content prices create a higher barrier of entry and affect competitors similarly.

Second, Netflix spent significant amounts on expanding abroad. Netflix is now available in all of North America, all of South America, the UK, Ireland, and most recently all of Scandinavia. Spending money to grow the company abroad cut into earnings, but sets up the company for much higher future profits and revenues.

Certainly, Netflix has shot itself in the foot once or twice (a la Qwikster), but it is still ubiquitous with streaming video online. Its most recent earnings report showed better than expected profits and revenue, but the stock fell because of slow subscriber growth. Global expansion will improve growth and earnings, which is why I believe the market is still undervaluing Netflix at $69 per share and presents Microsoft with a good price, even with a premium, to buy a controlling portion.?...?Continue to read.

Source: http://stocktipsinvestment.blogspot.com/2012/10/2-stocks-that-could-soar-on-potential.html

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New study sheds light on how and when vision evolved

ScienceDaily (Oct. 29, 2012) ? Opsins, the light-sensitive proteins key to vision, may have evolved earlier and undergone fewer genetic changes than previously believed, according to a new study from the National University of Ireland Maynooth and the University of Bristol published October 29 in Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences (PNAS) .

The study, which used computer modelling to provide a detailed picture of how and when opsins evolved, sheds light on the origin of sight in animals, including humans. The evolutionary origins of vision remain hotly debated, partly due to inconsistent reports of phylogenetic relationships among the earliest opsin-possessing animals.

Dr Davide Pisani of Bristol's School of Earth Sciences and colleagues at NUI Maynooth performed a computational analysis to test every hypothesis of opsin evolution proposed to date. The analysis incorporated all available genomic information from all relevant animal lineages, including a newly sequenced group of sponges (Oscarella carmela) and the Cnidarians, a group of animals thought to have possessed the world's earliest eyes.

Using this information, the researchers developed a timeline with an opsin ancestor common to all groups appearing some 700 million years ago. This opsin was considered 'blind' yet underwent key genetic changes over the span of 11 million years that conveyed the ability to detect light.

Dr Pisani said: "The great relevance of our study is that we traced the earliest origin of vision and we found that it originated only once in animals. This is an astonishing discovery because it implies that our study uncovered, in consequence, how and when vision evolved in humans."

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  1. Roberto Feuda, Sinead C. Hamilton, James O. McInerney, and Davide Pisani. Metazoan opsin evolution reveals a simple route to animal vision. PNAS, October 29, 2012 DOI: 10.1073/pnas.1204609109

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Windows Phone 8 handset UK availability and pricing detailed: free starting from ?21 per month

We've heard how Windows Phone 8 is all about you, and seen all the devices bearing the new OS at launch. What's left, however, is where you can get one on the other side of the pond and, more importantly, how much it's going to cost you. Nokia has separately announced that both the Lumia 920 and Lumia 820 will be launching in the UK (and France) later this week. More specifically, though, it looks like every UK carrier will be getting at least three handsets, with the almost-ready-to-launch EE getting both of HTC and Nokia's handset pairs. We've got all the (current) pricing details and availability dates after the break.

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Travelers, cargo stranded as airports, rails assess damage

(Reuters) - As rail, transit, airline and port workers dug through debris, dealt with power outages and assessed damage on Tuesday, one thing became increasingly clear:

Restoring full transportation could take some time.

Hurricane Sandy's assault on the eastern United States so brutally flooded tracks and roads, felled trees and downed power lines, it could be days or weeks before travelers and cargo are moving around normally again, officials said.

The three major New York area airports, which serve the nation's busiest airspace, remained closed on Tuesday, and officials said they had no estimate for when the airports would fully reopen.

Late Tuesday, Port Authority of New York and New Jersey said it was possible that there would be limited service on Wednesday at John F. Kennedy International Airport. There was no indication that LaGuardia and Newark Liberty would offer service on Wednesday. The three airports handle 300,000 passengers a day.

Nearly 16,000 flights have been canceled since Sunday as a result of the storm, including 7,791 canceled on Monday, 6,047 on Tuesday and 635 so far for Wednesday, according to flight tracking service FlightAware.com.

Airlines said they planned to restart service Tuesday at some East Coast airports, including Boston and Philadelphia. Both Dulles and Reagan National in Washington, D.C., were open during the storm and airlines are starting to bring personnel and planes back; limited operations were expected to begin Tuesday afternoon, said Kimberly Gibbs, a spokeswoman with Metropolitan Washington Airports Authority.

"New York airports are still a question," JetBlue spokeswoman Allison Steinberg said on Tuesday. "We are waiting for condition reports from the Port Authority, but we are ready to deploy our plan to resume operations to JFK, LaGuardia and Newark tomorrow afternoon."

And even if the airports reopen, travelers' itineraries are likely to be tangled throughout the week as airlines sort out getting their people, planes and passengers into position.

"If flights (in the New York area) started to resume as early as tomorrow, it could be four to five days before we start to see schedules get back to normal," said Jeanenne Tornatore, a senior editor with online travel agency Orbitz Worldwide. "I think it will be into the late weekend."

Most Amtrak service along the busy Northeast corridor remained suspended for a second day Tuesday, but officials were working to reopen some service Wednesday.

"We have crews out there right now assessing and making necessary repairs," said Christina Leeds, an Amtrak spokeswoman.

United Parcel Service, the world's largest package delivery company, said it had resumed deliveries to hospitals and clinics in Manhattan and New Jersey where roads are safe.

But delivery remained halted in Washington, D.C., Baltimore and Philadelphia. UPS is "respecting areas where government officials only want emergency responders out in Delaware, New Jersey, Philly and parts of Maryland and Virginia," spokeswoman Susan Rosenberg said.

FedEx Corp said it was working to resume service on Wednesday in affected areas, but that hub airport closures and storm debris would affect service. "If you're at a house blockaded by fallen trees, we won't be able to get to it," said Scott Fiedler, a spokesman.

In New York, workers from the Port Authority and the Federal Aviation Administration are assessing damage at major airports, including power issues, possible damage to structures and other safety checks, the FAA and the Port Authority said.

Airlines needed to bring back planes, which were flown out to avoid the storm, to resume service.

"We are focused on reopening as quickly as possible. But we will not compromise safety," said Pasquale DiFulco, a spokesman for the Port Authority. "We need to walk the runways and make sure there's no debris."

He declined to estimate when they would reopen. "Certainly we would like to within the next few days seek to resume normal operations," he said. "But a lot of things are outside our control."

The reopening of New York's transit system will play a large role in reopening the airports, because many of the workers at security checkpoints, customs and concessions, and baggage handlers and flight crews, rely on public transportation to get to work. "That's going to be a key part of the equation," DiFulco said.

New York Mayor Michael Bloomberg said it could take four or five days to restore service on the city transit system, the nation's largest.

"The availability of public transportation will also play into the New York plan, too - so it remains very, very fluid," said JetBlue spokeswoman Steinberg.

About 220 travelers remain stranded at the airports - 100 at John F. Kennedy and 60 each at Newark Liberty and LaGuardia, DiFulco said. They were provided with cots and at least one food vendor was required to stay open 24 hours at each terminal.

"We hate to see anybody stranded," DiFulco said. "We're providing cots and water and working on food vouchers. We're doing everything we can to keep people comfortable."

Meanwhile, flights resumed Tuesday at Stewart International Airport, about 60 miles north of Manhattan, near Newburgh, New York. The first commercial flight since the storm was expected to arrive around noon Tuesday, DiFulco said.

Railway freight companies also were working to restore service. CSX Corp, the nation's second-largest publicly traded railway company, said its network remains closed from Richmond, Virginia, to Albany, New York, and that it had halted traffic originating on other lines traveling to most points between Boston and Philadelphia.

CSX said it still had a lot of its track to inspect, and that it had found flooding, downed trees and power outages along the route.

"Our engineering teams are out removing trees, making sure generators are up against power outages, and reinstalling crossing gates."

Norfolk Southern Corp said it was waiting for floodwater to subside, was clearing snow in western Virginia and West Virginia, and had a power line across tracks in Cleveland.

Airlines could lose $175 million in revenue from flights canceled because of the storm, said Michael Boyd, an aviation consultant with Boyd Group International in Evergreen, Colorado.

"None of it is life-threatening corporately, but it is significant," he said.

Boyd said Delta Air Lines, JetBlue and United would be among the carriers taking the hardest financial hit. He added that AMR Corp's American Airlines operates 25 percent of the flights at JFK.

"From the airline perspective, closing your major hubs for several days is worth of a lot of revenue," said Carter Leake, an analyst at BB&T Capital Markets in Richmond, Virginia.

Airlines have high fixed costs and the loss of revenue would likely lower profits, he added.

Philadelphia's airport did not close but Monday flights were canceled. "We had no damage to the facility, we had no flooding so we were very fortunate," airport spokeswoman Victoria Lupica said on Tuesday.

Germany's Lufthansa has an inbound and outbound flight, and cargo carriers have resumed some operations, she said.

Delta Air Lines said it resumed flights to Philadelphia on Tuesday afternoon.

Atlantic City's airport was closed except for military flights, but Spirit Airlines, the main commercial carrier there, may resume some service later on Tuesday, said Kevin Rehmann, a spokesman for the South Jersey Transportation Authority.

The area was hard hit as the hurricane came ashore Monday night. "The water is receding but it left behind lots of debris and mud and dirt," he said.

(Additional reporting by Nick Zieminksi and Emily Stephenson; Writing by Alwyn Scott; Editing by Phil Berlowitz)

Source: http://news.yahoo.com/travelers-cargo-stranded-u-airports-rails-assess-damage-204930439--sector.html

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